I have also found this type of boater here in the south actually most all boater here are snobby like that unless:
1) you offer them free drinks
2) you have available ladies on board
.... just yesterday i was at the sand bar Stilstville (I will post some pics tomorrow bikini section

) and see there are like 9 boats when i arrive, being that i had the smalles boat (20') i rode right up in the middle of the sand bar while the tide was going down i had no worries i felt like kind of the bar..... later had some other boats pull up and the wind was preventing them from anchoring a good grip so i offered a few (3) total while i was there to first off assit them in digging their anchor and was turned away as if i had some other intentions ( this was weird ) later offered to tie a smaller craft that was having the same anchoring problem they said no, almost like leave me alone.....
Yesterday was truly weired and i had a flying RAFT-UP flag......... I had three ladies (nice) my music was low and conservative as to not break the peace......
Just one of those days I guess.
I have yet to run into any other boater with a RAFT-UP flag down here, except my buddy SEAFOX1 he was up from naples and we ran into eachother for a short beer right on the intercoastal....
WOOOOO HOOOOO - just broke in the Garmin498 yesterday.... NICE... but i will post in the electronic section.
Had to vent also...
Enriqueg